Welcome to WEEK 18 of #ChingonaFest Fridays on Aspiring Mama. If you’re new to the blog, here’s the link to the my Latina Dimelo column that sparked the conversation that’s still going strong. The premise is this: I want to raise my daughter to be a Chingona — on purpose, Las Tias and cultural backlash be damned. If you like the column, I’d love for you to share with your social media circles, leave a comment on the link, or whip up a happy lil’ Letter to the Editor telling them how you feel and send it off to Editor@Latina.com. You may not think that kind of thing makes a difference, but trust me when I tell you that it does.
Have you checked out my past #ChingonaFest ladies? Myrah Duque and Jesenia the Comedic Actress were two of the most recently featured wonder women. Each week, I’m featuring one fabulous Latina who’s moving mountains and raising hell because their stories are worth telling. Twenty questions will be presented to each and 15 will be answered and presented here to you in a Q&A format, like the fancy features in magazines, only with more typos and less airbrushing.
Today’ featured Chingona is a saint of a woman I consider myself lucky to call a friend. Her name is Denisse Moltavan and she’s the founder of the Orphaned Earring, an incredible non-profit benefiting Latin American orphanages. The premise is simple — you send in your orphan earring and/or donate any unwanted jewelry pieces and Denisse turns them into new pieces like these to sell for The Orphaned Earring.
To be clear, y’all, this is what Moltavan does in her spare time — on top of the 60 hours per week she puts in at her PR job. (I know, RIGHT?) Connect with Moltavan and The Orphaned Earring on Twitter, Facebook, and instagram.
So let’s get to that interview!
Pauline Campos: Chocolate or vanilla?
Denisse Moltavan: Chocolate.
PC: OMG TWINS, right? Favorite book and why?
DM: Amor en Los Tiempos de Cólera – Gabriel Garcia Marquez has the ability to transport us to different ages and eras and make US feel like the main characters in his books. He did just that with Amor En Los Tiempos de Colera, so as a child my first love was the book character.
PC: My high school AP English teacher would have loved you. What’s your favorite quote?
DM: “We often miss opportunity because it’s dressed in overalls and looks like work” ? Thomas A. Edison
PC: Opportunity needs a new stylist. Or maybe a friend brave enough to tell her that the overalls are not doing her any favors. Do you consider yourself a feminist?
DM: No, I consider myself an independent woman
PC: oh SNAP. I think you tie with Vannessa for best answer to this question EVER. Who inspires you?
DM: Many successful “everyday” Latinos who have found their success through hard work such as Richard Montanez of Pepsi Co. and Tommy Thompson of Moroch/iNSPIRE. I’m also inspired by Malala Yousafzai.
PC: I need to up my game. I was gonna say I’m inspired by the BFFs in the world brave enough to tell their overall-wearing BFFs that they aren’t allowed to leave the house until they’ve changed. Who is it you hope to inspire?
DM: I hope to inspire everyone around me to identify the opportunities to do good and take them! We all don’t have to have our own non-profits, we just need to train our hearts and minds to feel more compassion for others in the world and act on that compassion, just not be a spectator.
PC: Do you dream in color or black and white?
PC: Let’s play word association. I say CHINGONA and you say…?
DM: BEAST! It’s fun to be a sexy beast, but chingona is the new sexy!
PC: That makes me the new Sandra Cisneros. I’ll take it. How do you feel about Latinas and how we are represented in the media?
DM: Not enough Latinas are highlighted for their accomplishments and intelligence. Latinas “make it” in media if they are very sexy and dress sexy as well. I’m not only referring to general market media, our Hispanic media puts so much pressure to being beautiful and sexy on TV that the rest of the world thinks that that’s all we have to offer.
PC: I knew I liked you for a reaon… Quick! One takeaway you want your children to hold onto after they’ve grown and flown the nest…
DM: You must show God’s love and mercy with others by helping and caring for them. People will be able to see God’s love through their actions.
Everything is possible, everything has a solution and the worse others can say to us is NO, and that’s not a big deal.
PM: One childhood memory that has stuck with you…
DM: Being at the baseball field watching my daddy play every weekend, he was my childhood hero
PC: I like your dad. Do you think in English, Spanish, or Spanglish?
DM: I think in Spanish at home and with friends and English at work.
PC: That sounds entirely like way too much work. What’s your favorite dish? Why?
DM: Fritanga which includes red beans and rice, carne asada, tajadas verdes, ensalada de repollo, queso frito
PC: Bless you. Why am I suddenly hungry? Also, Do you feel “Latina enough”?
DM: Yes, very very Latina.
PC: Do you chew your ice cream? (Or is that just a Me thing?)
DM: Nope, I take a bite, hold it in my mouth and let it melt.
PM: Patience, young grasshopper. One Latina stereotype you embrace (or is there one?)
DM: That we are nurturers.
And there ya have it. To nominate a Latina for a future #ChingonaFest Friday feature, email me at firstname.lastname@example.org or tweet me with the hashtag #ChingonaFest. And don’t forget to check out my latest Dimelo Advice column on Latina Magazine. This week’s reader wants to know how to handle a competitive best friend. Check out my response and let me know what you think! Also, be sure to send me your questions to email@example.com.
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