My usual nighttime routine is to get Buttercup in bed with a book or ten before turning off the light. No matter how quickly she falls asleep, I always stay for a bit, tracing my finger over her cheek and marveling at the fact that Universe granted me this one wish.
Around 9, I make it back downstairs to the kitchen table, where my Mac is waiting patiently for me, and I get to work. First I procrastinate. There’s the internet to roam and email to check and pins to pin and George Takei Facebook posts to like. I get up for a bit, put together The Husband’s lunch for the next day, and place it all on the second shelf of the fridge in the exact same spot because it’s at eye level and easier for me to make sure I haven’t left anything out. I might let the dogs outside. I might even turn on some music. Either way, by 10 or so, I’m back at the kitchen table and writing something. Maybe it’s a blog post or an essay or another small piece of the novel in progress that won’t allow itself to be written any faster than a few sentences a month.
In any case, I write. And when my head is empty and my thoughts no longer racing, I sleep. And then I wake up to do it all over again.
But there are times when the routine is interrupted by noise. It might be while she is falling asleep at my side. Or while I wait for the dogs to scratch at the back door. This is when I blink to clear my head and realize an hour has passed while I focus on picking at an invisible imperfection until skin breaks. I tell myself to stop. Normal people don’t do this kind of thing, you know. And I’ll move on. Chin to that little bump between my eyebrows. From the eyebrows to the forearm. The forearm to the breast. Too much time passes. There’s no time for words.
Buttercup’s swim instructor asked me today if I had been in a car accident since she saw me last. I told her I was dealing with allergic reactions, which is partially true. I am. It’s what got me scratching to begin with, anyway, and I’ll share the laundry list of reasons why I am now officially The Dinner Guest from Hell later. The Husband has stopped yelling at me about this little OCD issue of mine and instead instructed me to make an appointment with my nurse practitioner about my ADHD meds not working for me anymore. I nodded, only slightly surprised to see how quickly we have both adapted to the reality that ADHD is more than just being forgetful, which came as a surprise when I noticed the need to scratch at my surface had instantly disappeared when I first was diagnosed and began a regular medication schedule. So I went in to see my nurse practitioner on Monday and started the new meds on Tuesday. It’s Wednesday now and I’m noticing the insomnia seems to be fading as my eyes get heavier just a bit earlier than the 4 am I have become accustomed to over the past few weeks. That’s a good sign.
I resume my usual nighttime routine. Buttercup falls asleep. I procrastinate. I empty my mind of the words.